Any circumstances that create 'extreme friction' to the point of feeling persistent discomfort due to the actions or personality of a person that you are frequently in contact with, propagates the expunction of that relationship, in my opinion.
That is why I broke up with my ex.
I don't understand what caused her to think that reuniting two clearly conflicting personalities would be good for her or positive in any way, but she's trying really hard to 'get back together' with me.
She seems to think that 'everything will be okay' if I let her back into my life, but I'm pretty sure one of us will become homicidal first.
Besides, I am enjoying 'playing the field' and the life of an attractive bachelor.
Despite the fact that I don't want to be with my ex, I do want her to be happy, sort of like how I want my favorite sports team to win the world series.
Besides, I only ever had vague feelings of it being possible that she was 'the one' or that we would be dating for more than a couple years at most. Not sure why she is making such a big deal about this.
It's been four months. I think that she should 'act like an adult' and have sex with someone else. Seems like I am 'more than okay' with that happening.